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Post by Carrie » Mon May 26, 2008 10:55 am

Ladies,

Due to the recent tone on parts of our board, I felt the need to address a little more fully the reasoning behind my responses and our board's purpose. :D

I realize the benefit of asking questions and also the benefit of having questions answered. I am a questioner by nature myself. :D

However, calling into question the accuracy of our guides or the appropriateness of the spines chosen are not discussion-type questions. They are pointedly calling into question the overall integrity of our program. If we disagree on the program's integrity, there is no discussion that can solve that. If the program is in fact inaccurate or the spines (that every activity on the left side of the plans for each day match) are not good spines, then how will a discussion solve that? :o

The best scenario for questions of accuracy is to personally contact the author to respectfully give them a chance to answer. Even Cathy Duffy and Mary Pride give the author first chance to respond to any review written by them in case they are inaccurate. :wink:

When the program's integrity is in question on our own board, I am most certainly going to address it in a direct manner. This is because I have watched many boards downward spiral so quickly into becoming a place to complain and vent, which leaves no one feeling good about anything they're doing. In homeschooling there are many places and people that are more than willing to tell us that what we're doing is not good enough, we do not want this board to be one of them! :wink:

I have been answering questions about HOD for over 7 years (both personally with 1000's of moms at book fairs and individually by telephone and by email). I am more than happy to answer questions and am well aware that one curriculum will not fit everyone's needs. Many moms tweak HOD guides to fit their individual family's needs, and I am well-known for working hard to help moms do just that. 8)

Our goal for this board remains the same as it has always been, and so I will include an important excerpt here from our original welcome to close:
Our prayer for this board is that its content may glorify our Father in heaven and may also encourage other families on their homeschool journey. With that in mind, we will be monitoring the board for helpful content as well as for a positive, encouraging tone. Posts that we feel do not reflect the philosophy of Heart of Dakota Publishing may be removed.


The boards I have most enjoyed through the years are those that have worked hard to keep the tone encouraging and the questions helpful and that was one of our goals when starting the HOD Board. We continue to desire for this board to be a place to help uplift and encourage those who are using HOD. :D

Blessings,
Carrie

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Post by water2wine » Mon May 26, 2008 11:29 am

Thank you Carrie! And thank you for being such a blessing to our family! Never have a met a publisher of curriculum more kind and willing to help than you are! And I know I speak for many saying you will never know how much you have helped us achieve our homeschooling goals and discipleship goals with our children. My children and I are in prayer for your writing and future writings! And we are blessed that you allow us to watch it all unfold.

Thank you also for this post. I appreciate the way you keep this board different and encouraging. So that we can all be happy HOD mommies!
All your children shall be taught by the LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children. Isaiah 54:13
~Six lovies from God~4 by blessing of adoption
-MTMM (HS), Rev to Rev, CTC, DITHR
We LOVED LHFHG/Beyond/Bigger/Preparing/CTC/RTR/Rev to Rev (HS)

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Post by netpea » Mon May 26, 2008 1:41 pm

W2W said it well. Thank you Carrie for all your hard work. I remember you answering questions I had by email about LHFHG 3 years ago. You have always impressed me by your willingness to help us figure things out. May God continue to bless your family so that you can in turn bless our families with your programs.

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Post by MamaMary » Mon May 26, 2008 4:11 pm

water2wine wrote:Thank you Carrie! And thank you for being such a blessing to our family! Never have a met a publisher of curriculum more kind and willing to help than you are! And I know I speak for many saying you will never know how much you have helped us achieve our homeschooling goals and discipleship goals with our children. My children and I are in prayer for your writing and future writings! And we are blessed that you allow us to watch it all unfold.

Thank you also for this post. I appreciate the way you keep this board different and encouraging. So that we can all be happy HOD mommies!
I totally agree! I'm so sorry I must have missed a lot while I was gone? :shock: I have only experienced wonderful support here. Truly there is no other author out there who invests herself more fully in the success of her customers.

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Post by Jessi » Mon May 26, 2008 5:31 pm

Thank You Carrie.

You have been most helpful and encouraging, as have all of these wonderful ladies!! When I have a question or concern regarding my daughter's abilities and implementing HOD, everyone has been wonderful!

I will do my best to keep my posts positive.
Jessi
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Post by Dorla » Tue May 27, 2008 9:06 am

Thank you Carrie for taking care of this. It is not good to read negative comments or questions on this board that has really been a blessing to so many.
Thank you again for redirecting everyone's thoughts!
Dorla

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Post by dolphingirl » Wed May 28, 2008 10:52 pm

This is well-stated, Carrie, and I agree that this board has a very different feel to it than many other homeschooling boards because of the caring, Christian moms who try hard to encourage each other. I have deep regrets that a post I placed on a general homeschool review board was, without my consent, copied onto this board. :oops: I should have immediately e-mailed you and asked you to remove it, and I realize now that I should not have placed it on the hsr board. I should have simply bought the program and answered the questions myself or contacted you directly with my questions. I am very excited to use HOD next year and I hope to be involved on this board.
Kristin

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Post by Carrie » Thu May 29, 2008 12:50 am

Kristin,

It takes an amazing Christian woman to write the post you just did. I am very blessed by your words today, and I am so glad that you're looking forward to using HOD. We pray it may be a blessing to you and your family. :wink:

We know we have a special board here that the Lord is blessing, so we gaurd it like a treasure! :D We're glad to have you be a part of our HOD family.

Blessings,
Carrie

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Post by annegirl1919 » Thu May 29, 2008 8:15 am

and dolphingirl, i'm sorry i didn't think to ask you before i posted it. i wasn't thinking at all how any of it could be offensive. sorry all!
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Post by water2wine » Thu May 29, 2008 9:45 am

Wow! What a great bunch of real Christian women this curriculum attracts. It's such confirmation that this is how I want to teach m children. 8) You ladies have been a blessing today!
All your children shall be taught by the LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children. Isaiah 54:13
~Six lovies from God~4 by blessing of adoption
-MTMM (HS), Rev to Rev, CTC, DITHR
We LOVED LHFHG/Beyond/Bigger/Preparing/CTC/RTR/Rev to Rev (HS)

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