In my attempts (feeble still) to let go of All About Spelling I am finding that there are times I need a reference for instructing my child in why a word is spelled the way it is. It seems to fall flat here to say, "Well, that's how you spell 'back'" (when my son wants to spell it with "just a k rather than a ck"). When using AAS I am able to explain the "why", demonstrate it and he gets it! Light bulbs go on in his brain! Then he applies that "rule" to other words b/c he remembers it! I realize that doesn't happen in all cases but I am seeing that it is proving helpful in my kids' learning. In other instances my older son has used what he has learned about syllables in reading multi syllable words. The fact that he knows an open syllable always has a long vowel sound (and he knows how to divide a word into syllables) helps him to read that multi syllable word with correct pronunciation. Granted, we have a ways to go here (reading multi syllable words) but he does USE these few tools that he has learned. They are helping him.
How do I overcome this hurdle with studied dictation? I am feeling like my guys need a combination of "learn some of the whys and hows first" and THEN apply that via studied dictation, at least for a season. Or perhaps it is ME who needs the whys and hows so I can better instruct my kids.

I have read and re-read all of the threads. I believe in the power of dictation and believe it is worthy of a front row seat in our studies. But, where does the basic spelling know how come from? How do I walk my kiddos through trouble spots? I do see how using the word lists in Beyond teaches patterns based on phonograms but the lists don't give me the whys or help me to demonstrate/teach my kiddo WHEN we use this or that. I'll go back to my manual and read it again. I often miss things and after reading again with purpose I find what I'm looking for. Does learning these patterns seem to program a child's brain? Am I missing something in the purpose of the Beyond spelling lists that precede studied dictation?
I do so want to be a HOD purist

The bottom line is I think we need a rules based foundation explaining some of the whys and the sounds (kinda like phonics

I am needing counsel, encouragement, advice, stories, etc. I am not getting to a place of peace in the decision!!!!
