I am so glad you have found some encouragement here, as that is all of our heart's desire in helping one another here. Having some new things to try can really make such a difference. I've found sometimes it's the little things I change that can make the biggest changes overall! One year I got up 30 minutes early and that did the trick. Another year I added playtimes for my older/toddler, and middle/toddler, and that was the ticket. Last year I added LHTH, and that did it. Like deltagal said, every year is different. What worked last year for a schedule doesn't always work next year for me, but the general gist of it can stay the same. So, each of these little changes has helped the next year go better too. I think you will find this to be true as well. I have prayed for you as you ponder this and make a new plan. Just know you are not alone in this - we all feel this way at times - that's why this thread has had so much response! In Christ,
Julie
We're going to write up some kind of schedule just to sort it out and help the boys stay on track. I think they crave something like that as well, even if it doesn't always seem like it. They know what to expect and know they are getting time with mom.