Thanks so much for sharing about your dc, and after reading through all of this thread, I think you came to a great conclusion to have your ds do BHFHG with extensions!

He is an avid reader, and the extensions will nicely beef up his science and history without adding more teaching time for you, as they are independent. If ds hasn't done R & S English before, I do think R & S English 4 may be a better fit - not only for the grammar, but also for the writing. The writing lessons in R & S English have done as much to help our sons become better writers as the formal writing programs we have used through the years! The lessons in English are concise, with step-by-step directions, and they teach writing skills that can be applied cross-curricular (i.e. outlining, taking notes, constructing solid paragraphs, etc.). I also think DITHOR 4/5 would be great, and he'd probably love either the 4/5 Boy Interest Book Pack or the 5/6 Boy Interest Book Pack, whichever fits his comfort level with reading better. The placement test with math will be a big help in choosing which math levels to use. It is super accurate! So, hooray! I think ds is figured out for the most part!
Now, about dd... what do you think? There is somewhat of a bigger increase in workload in difficulty from RTR to RevtoRev, but not as much from CTC to RTR. So, maybe by printing the first week of plans out of both choices, you could see which one fit her better? They are both awesome guides, but the best guide will be the one that fits her the best skillwise, and I'd probably be more apt to choose the one that she 100% can handle the independent workload independently (something I have done with my last 2 dc that has helped homeschooling 3 guides at a time be very doable

). Could you share a little more about her maybe? Sorry I took a little bit to get back to you here! I have been returning phone calls, and it is c-r-a-z-y busy - in a good way

- right now!!! In the meantime, though, you got an answer from Carrie herself - that's a bonus as authors just don't usually do that, right?!?

She is very gracious with her time even though it is short. Anyway, love to hear more about dd, if you get the chance!!! In the meantime - we are celebrating getting ds figured out - hooray!!!
In Christ,
Julie