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by Nealewill » Fri Feb 20, 2015 12:02 pm
My son just recently made some leaps and strides in his spelling. Here are some things I noticed and some things I did with him. Hopefully something helps.
When she does her copywork, does she segment the word while copying it or just pick a string of letters to write not necessarily picking based off of the syllable structure. For example, if my son was going to spell backyard, he would not segment it and say "ba...cky...ard". If I were to sound this out, I would say "Back...yard" and spell those independently. I had to work with him to say "back" and then "yard" to spell it. Even something like "Sat...ur...day". He might write "Sa...tu...rd...ay". Well, those letter strings he came up with never would have led him to the word in sounding it out and putting it down on paper. So, I have him segment the word while he spells it.
Also, do you make her read it back to you sounding out each letter? I did that a ton this year. My son would write "sig" instead of "sing". It has take a while to train him up be his getting much better. And if she reads it back to you but she doesn't see it, I would then proceed to read it out loud as they wrote it pointing out how you see it. It may sound mean but they might not be able to "see" it the way you do. I then ask why it doesn't say that word they wanted to write and then they can fix it.
It seems like this type of thing happened to my oldest when she was 8 going on 9 and she finally got spelling at this time. I would say for my oldest, she finally had punctuation down by the time she completed Preparing. My son will be 9 this summer and he is getting better with punctuation. My youngest though is so different - she spells great and her punctuation is usually included most of the time.
I personally wouldn't stress about it. The one thing I would do though, especially since you have so many kids, I might take a month or two half speed with the child that is struggling. I would do this to invest these traits into her and hopefully help so that you won't have to do this again in the future. It seems like the times my kids grow the most in an area that they are struggling in is the times when I take a break from pushing everything else and I put my time and focus in these few areas. My son has probably had the most struggle with pretty much everything he touches. So I do understand how it can be frustrating to feel like you are taking backwards steps. But every time I invest in him, I have always been so happy with the results that I have decided the extra time was well worth the extra spent and have no regrets about it either.
Daneale
DD 13 WG
DS 12 R2R
DD 10 R2R
Enjoyed DITHOR, Little Hearts, Beyond, Bigger, Preparing, CTC, R2R, RevtoRev, MtMM