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Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 1:29 pm
by lovetobehome
We need help making a decision about a job opportunity. My husband works for a large nonprofit environmental org. He is very dedicated, works long hours, travels a lot. He was offered another job with a for-profit company. The new job is related to the environmental work. The new job pays about 30% more with potential for large bonuses (up to 40% salary), share in the company, and would permit him to telecommute (so we would not have to move if we don't want to). The old job countered with a promotion and more responsibilites but also more leadership.

The new job has much more volatility, he knows a lot less about it, it has less longterm stability . The old job has stability, but with the promotion a lot more will be expected of him. I think the stress with the new job would be less, except for the stress of it not being dependable in the longterm. That alone might be stressful? With his current job, we know they respect him and it is such a huge org, we know they arent going anywhere. He will have a job as long as he wants it there, assuming the economy doesn't totally tank. He has made it through many staff cuts there.

With the old employer, I imagine it will be even more hours to get the job done well. With the new employer, we are told by others who work there that they work about a 7 hour day. But they told him, as long as you get the job done, that is your business. So I feel like it is vague. ANd there are only about 5 people in this new company, so there is not a lot of homework we can do to find out what it will REALLY be like. We don't know if they are telling us all sorts of sweet things to get us there, or if these things are truly the way it will be.

He has worked for the 'old' employer for 7 years. He is a very dedicated and loyal employee. And while he has been underpaid there, he has made it clear that that is not going to work anymore and the employer was willing to give him a large promotion and raise to keep him. Overall, he likes his work though it is demanding and will get more so since the promotion involves supervising a lot more people and heading up 3 of their main programs. However, with the promotion comes the need to move to their main office, about 1.5 hours away. So even if he keeps with the current employer, we will be moving in the next 6 months or so.

He also has several other potential positions being offered to him, so I sort of think that if the new job doesn't pan out, he will have these other options waiting on the horizon. Apparently, he is in a good niche and very well respected in his field of work.

One has more risk, but the potential for a lot of new doors opening and potential for a lot more money (which will help for college!). Both of us went into the environmental career fields, it isnt like we are gold-diggers, never expected to strike it rich. But of course it is appealing with 3 children to educate and care for.

How do you make these sorts of decisions?
Any thoughts? Considerations? Answers?
If you have no advice, perhaps you would pray for us that God would give us clarity on which route to take. Thanks!

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 2:20 pm
by Tansy
Praying for you :-)

no matter what they say about hours at work the 80/20 rule stands in every organization (even our mission)
80% of the people do 20% of the work and 20% of the people do 80% of the work... so if your hubby is a 80% type guy... well his habits will not change.

but risk is not something to be afraid off, maybe in the new job you should set aside 30% of your income for an emergency fund. Think if you had 3-6 months worth of income in your savings account... would this be a hard decision? I'm not there yet but I'm working toward that goal!

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 2:37 pm
by cirons
Hi, it sounds like your husband is a valued employee and this is a huge decision, one only your family can make.

The considerations we make when making this kind of decision are the following:

1) family comes first.....does the job allow for us to have the family lifestyle we believe in? If not, find a job that does allow for us to be a family.

2) will my husband be happy and fulfilled in the job? If not, I don't want him in it! I don't care so much about the money (as long as there is enough for us to pay for stuff), as long as he is happy and feels challenged by the work. I don't want a bored, frustrated or stressed husband.

3) Follow your gut....for us, we believe the Holy Spirit tells us to go or no. My husband usually listens to me on this and then I wait for the HS to speak to him too.....I give him what I feel the HS has directed us to do, then he processes in his own time and usually comes around to the same conclusion. I stay out of the process though because I believe that God needs to speak to my husband in his timing. This is just how our decision making usually works in our marriage.

4) Don't make a decision based on money. If it is a God thing and a good thing, money will follow and we will be provided for. This does not mean it is not a consideration or not important. It just means it is not the deciding factor. If the best option based on the above considerations has more money, bonus!!!!

Be blessed and I hope you hear some clear guidance for this decision soon,

Corrie

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 6:52 pm
by mamanlait
This may sound obvious but...Pray, patiently wait, pray more, let God reveal His Will for your family. :D Don't make a move until you feel God's leading. We have been down a similar road (um...many times). Patiently wait on the Lord, He WILL reveal his plan for your family!

Praying alongside you.
Amy

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 7:49 am
by lovetobehome
Thank you all for your prayers and comments! My husband has decided, we are waiting for the final details to be settled, and as soon as they are and it is 'official' I will let you know the outcome!

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 8:31 am
by lovetobehome
They just accepted! WOOHOO! My husband has a new job! He is ecstatic, and I know it will be good for him. We both feel God's peace at this decision. We hope it enables more family time than his current position.
WOW! So much changing so quickly! They are allowing us to decide if he wants to telecommute and travel to the office (3hours away) occasionally, or they will relocate us to the new city and bump his salary to reflect the higher cost of living there...in Philadelphia!

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 12:47 pm
by blessedmomof4
Congratulations!

Re: Off topic---how does one decide about job offers?

Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:10 pm
by gazelle
How wonderful! So glad that you and your hubby followed the Lord and have peace. And a new job! May God bless your family in your new journey.