Math woes
Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 8:49 pm
From Sarah...
All year I have struggled with my ds. He is a slower worker at times and he especially screeches to a halt in Math. We are doing Horizons Math 4 and long division is slaying him completely. I have been driven by my own desires of mastery to do more than an hour of Math many days. He needs what we call "Math Talk" ( a time for drills, explanations, re-explaining, etc.) and then takes crazy-long to finish his worksheet. Picking erasers, sketching pictures and saying "I need your help" is very time consuming.
Of course all this time spent with math puts us off schedule for our other subjects so that we rarely get everything done. We are waaaay behind (especially in Math) and I can't see slowing down any more. We tried switching math programs at the beginning of the year and it failed miserably. I decided to switch back to Horizons but we lost time in the process. I new we would be behind, but I wanted, still, to move at his pace...
His pace is kinda slow. Of course we had to be on a 4 day a week schedule because of Classical Conversations, so we couldn't catch up. I am inclined to work Math through the summer to catch up. It makes me nuts to think of not finishing our Math program and starting the upcoming year behind.
I read a post from Carrie today that brought me to tears. She was giving a mom the idea of setting a timer to finish work in 15 minutes and adding 5 minutes to it if the work is unfinished. She suggested coming alongside and working with him in a hurried but loving/teammate fashion to get as much of the work done in those 5 minutes as possible. I love the idea, but how can I apply it to a 4th grader who takes 5 minutes doing a two digit divisor/long division problem. We won't get very far in 15 minutes.
I am weary of the feeling that I'm not ... or he's not...
This is my first year with HOD and I have passed the name around to anyone I think will benefit. I have adored BHFHG. I have done primarily left side of plans (mixed with other things) with my two - 7 and 10 year old boys. The days we can't get to all subjects, they really want to do BHFHG. Still, behind as we are, frustrated as I am, I have no doubts about HOD having been the Lord's perfect fit for us this year. Thank you, Carrie. May the Lord multiply your hours as you tend His sheep.
All year I have struggled with my ds. He is a slower worker at times and he especially screeches to a halt in Math. We are doing Horizons Math 4 and long division is slaying him completely. I have been driven by my own desires of mastery to do more than an hour of Math many days. He needs what we call "Math Talk" ( a time for drills, explanations, re-explaining, etc.) and then takes crazy-long to finish his worksheet. Picking erasers, sketching pictures and saying "I need your help" is very time consuming.


I read a post from Carrie today that brought me to tears. She was giving a mom the idea of setting a timer to finish work in 15 minutes and adding 5 minutes to it if the work is unfinished. She suggested coming alongside and working with him in a hurried but loving/teammate fashion to get as much of the work done in those 5 minutes as possible. I love the idea, but how can I apply it to a 4th grader who takes 5 minutes doing a two digit divisor/long division problem. We won't get very far in 15 minutes.
I am weary of the feeling that I'm not ... or he's not...
This is my first year with HOD and I have passed the name around to anyone I think will benefit. I have adored BHFHG. I have done primarily left side of plans (mixed with other things) with my two - 7 and 10 year old boys. The days we can't get to all subjects, they really want to do BHFHG. Still, behind as we are, frustrated as I am, I have no doubts about HOD having been the Lord's perfect fit for us this year. Thank you, Carrie. May the Lord multiply your hours as you tend His sheep.