I've used both! I've used MFW Pre-K, K, 1st, ECC...I'm am a forever HODie now! LOL I've used LHTH and Beyond, started Little Hearts today and will start Bigger next week.
I've got several reasons why...
I will just say that I burned out quickly with MFW with the way it's laid out, and the fact there is so much tweaking for the younger crowd since the aim is for older students once you get past 1st/2nd grade and into the "cycle" even though it says it's for 2nd - 8th grades...no leading to independence and math and LA are
not scheduled for you (they only say do math or do english or do spelling, etc.) I am so much happier with the content, planning, design, and everythign about HOD that I'm planning on staying with HOD all the way! If HOD doesn't do high school, I'll probably use MFW high school then. That's when MFW kids start their independent learning, but HOD kids will transition easily b/c they've been working up to it more and more each year.
Oh, the guide is labeled as "Week #, Day #" and in ECC, it had Monday, Tues...Friday at the top and is in a grid format, all teaching notes on separate pages...HOD is labeled as "Unit #, Day #" and is laid out with a day's worth of plans in a 2 page spread....all notes and even the learning objective is laid out for you! I always felt behind in MFW b/c I might be on Day 4 on Monday but it says it's Thursday. The flow was messed up if I didnt' start Day 1 of each week on Monday. In HOD, I'm never on Day 1 of a unit on Monday and the flow is always still flowing just fine
I personally like the book choices better in HOD as well as the grammar, writing, and math choices for all levels in HOD compared to MFW. I prefer the activities in HOD b/c they really do call for things I have on hand! MFW many times called for unusual things...a certain size pipe or board or even a special kind of bees wax. Needless to say, many hands on things were skipped!
I do think MFW is pretty solid and a great fit for some families, but all in all, I have to say I think HOD is PERFECT! LOL I'm trying my best to not be too biased. I think everyone should use HOD! hehehehehehehe
I dont' want to sound like I'm bad mouthing MFW, but it wasn't a good fit for us at all.
Are you considering Adventures or ECC for your 3rd grader? My very advanced 2nd grader strongly disliked ECC
It is so aimed for 5th and higher, maybe 4th...it bored her to tears. We could never finish 1 days work in 1 day and then I had to plan my math, spelling , and english! Plus take all those trips to the library to find all the books! We have LOVED HOD and how everything is just there, planned and laid out for me, with no need to go to the library other than for pleasure reading.
Me and my long, incoherent posts...I can never find a good straight stretch of time to post uninterrupted! LOL Hope it's at least a little clear to you