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by tmcg » Fri Feb 20, 2009 10:51 pm
I have a 5 yo who just turned 5 this month. She has the mindset of a preschooler but the intelligence of a kindergartner. So, I got the EarlyBird Mathematics from Singapore, the Bible and Devotional from Little Hands and we sing the songs from Little Hands (and my 2 1/2 yo is joining in...it is so cute) and my 1st grader doing Little Hearts loves music so this is fun for her. I got the K science for Little Hearts but decided not to push it. I will do Little Hearts next year for K and do Pre-school now. I also got her K for handwriting. So she does math and handwriting and sometimes we sing (and play instruments with the songs)....she LOVES art and being creative. I struggle to get her to follow directions....if it says color it red....she wants to color it something else, so I am trying to help her have a chance to color pictures whenever possible. We also have discussion about there being a time and place for being creative vs. following directions. She joins in with the Little Hearts storytime and I got the other Thornton Burgess books so when I do it again next year, we won't repeat the same stories but will continue on with the same series. We also do phonics w/ The Reading Lesson or sounding out words elsewhere. I just feel better knowing when she wants to run off and dress up like a princess instead of doing another page in her workbook that I have the time to do this. I decided that she just turned 5 so I am not the least bit behind, but it is hard to feel this way because she wanted to be included when she was 3 and her sister was doing K (beginning of last school year), but if I set realistic expectations and make her do some school but not overwhelm her I feel like she will do better. Sometimes it seems she just wants to do whatever she is not supposed to be doing and having some limits is healthy for her, but I want it to be a positive experience so I will not push it. This is just what worked for me. She likes to sit with her sister when we do Little Hearts but at least if she gets sick of it and wants to go play with her little brother (2 1/2 yo) then I won't struggle to get her back on task, I can take advantage of her help in entertaining him. This has helped w/ HS. If something comes up then we can also read library books and so forth to add in some interesting topics to keep things enjoyable. Just my 2 cents.
Tammy
Mom to dd, 6, 1st grade, LHFHG
dd, 5, Pre-K, LHTH
ds, 2, Toddler Pre-K, LHTH (he loves the songs)
Wife to Jonathan (12 years in June)