My son has decided to go back to school
Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2016 10:11 am
We came from a super conservative Mennonite setting three years ago. Our children went to the day school the church had, and graduation was at 8th grade. They used mostly Rod and Staff materials, which in the English and Math are pretty hearty. I have heard many people say that R&S math would be equivalent to 10th grade. Based on what I saw, I would agree, sort of. It covered the basics well, but is certainly not what someone who is college bound would need in today's world. Which is part of the reason we left.
Fast forward, our soon to be 18 year old son has decided he wants to finish high school-or get an equivalency and even pursue college. I am not entirely sure if he knows what he wants to study, or any specific goals he has. He has been mulling this over and just recently started to talk about it. I am thrilled. But also a bit apprehensive. I don't know what to advise him on what he needs-I am going to go back to school myself as I didn't finish college and have spent the last nearly 30 years at home raising our large family. We do have three who we homeschool. I have posted a while back about our super reluctant middle schoolers.
I expect, knowing my son, he will stick with this endeavor, but I also know he has attained some knowledge (he has worked the last couple of years) that is not what one could quantify on a transcript. He is learning computers-using programs at his job where they work with computerized components in the RV industry and solar power components as well.) He always did super well in school never scoring below a 97-98% overall and getting straight A's.
So what would be our first step in evaluating what he needs to accomplish? He wants to do the work, though he would like to abbreviate or accelerate through it so he can be looking at college (at least a 2 year) in the next couple of years. Do we look at what his interests are (What color is your parachute type) and study mostly the things he needs, or go more straight high school or??? I have looked at the transcript and hour/credit requirements for our state through HSLDA, so I have a sort of blueprint to start with. However, he will be working at least part time while he is studying. He mentioned the GED issue and yet thinks just preparing for that, he will short himself on what he needs so he can go to college. He'd rather take the time to cover his bases now instead of spending the time in college getting the basic stuff he missed.
Any advice I would appreciate. I am thinking to put him HOD, but again due to his age he will want to accelerate. Would there be components he could skip or abbreviate? I assume Math and Science would be his biggest needs, and some broadening of his horizons in literature and History. Would we be able to skip or lessen the things he isn't interested in such as fine art studies. He likely would need a foreign language, but he wants to learn Spanish anyway. What else?
Thanks!
Sarah
Fast forward, our soon to be 18 year old son has decided he wants to finish high school-or get an equivalency and even pursue college. I am not entirely sure if he knows what he wants to study, or any specific goals he has. He has been mulling this over and just recently started to talk about it. I am thrilled. But also a bit apprehensive. I don't know what to advise him on what he needs-I am going to go back to school myself as I didn't finish college and have spent the last nearly 30 years at home raising our large family. We do have three who we homeschool. I have posted a while back about our super reluctant middle schoolers.
I expect, knowing my son, he will stick with this endeavor, but I also know he has attained some knowledge (he has worked the last couple of years) that is not what one could quantify on a transcript. He is learning computers-using programs at his job where they work with computerized components in the RV industry and solar power components as well.) He always did super well in school never scoring below a 97-98% overall and getting straight A's.
So what would be our first step in evaluating what he needs to accomplish? He wants to do the work, though he would like to abbreviate or accelerate through it so he can be looking at college (at least a 2 year) in the next couple of years. Do we look at what his interests are (What color is your parachute type) and study mostly the things he needs, or go more straight high school or??? I have looked at the transcript and hour/credit requirements for our state through HSLDA, so I have a sort of blueprint to start with. However, he will be working at least part time while he is studying. He mentioned the GED issue and yet thinks just preparing for that, he will short himself on what he needs so he can go to college. He'd rather take the time to cover his bases now instead of spending the time in college getting the basic stuff he missed.
Any advice I would appreciate. I am thinking to put him HOD, but again due to his age he will want to accelerate. Would there be components he could skip or abbreviate? I assume Math and Science would be his biggest needs, and some broadening of his horizons in literature and History. Would we be able to skip or lessen the things he isn't interested in such as fine art studies. He likely would need a foreign language, but he wants to learn Spanish anyway. What else?
Thanks!
Sarah