Need high school advice; guides overlapping grades/behind.
Posted: Mon Jun 22, 2015 9:19 pm
I need some help from those that have gone before me. Everyone here has such a wealth of knowledge, and I can sure use some insight on high school planning for my oldest dd.
I hope I can make our situation make sense...here goes:
DD (15) is currently working on finishing up the WG guide (this should be 10th grade for her, but I consider it 9 or last half of 9th/1st half of 10th - more explained below). Our school year has always changed over between Feb-April of each year. I can never seem to get us out of that. This year due to various life/family happenings it is ending later (end of July). DD will be working through summer for her high school years UNLESS she tackles the beast and cranks out more to move things along. She is very capable of doing this...charging through and getting more done in a shorter time frame.
Dd wants to graduate on time and be done with her high school in two years. If she is to graduate 'on time', her grad year is 2017 and she will be 18yo that summer. Not on time, it will move back to mid-winter/early-spring 2018 (fall 2017 might be a possibility as well).
Anyway, I had it stuck in my head that each guide is it's own single grade and that we have to complete all 4 high school guides. However, I came across some older posts on this board the other week where it was mentioning a guide covering the last half of one grade and the first half of the next grade. I guess I did realize this could be done before, and just forgot about it. Again that 'stuck' mentality that I mentioned has always put me in the mode that 'we are behind...gotta catch up.' But, thinking the other way, we could end things after the next/3rd HOD hs guide, AH1, and just not do the 4th guide.
When dd was in MTMM, we beefed up Economics for 9th grade credit. She had (and still is) taken enough classes/lessons in art and music, and put in more than enough hours, that I will be counting something in music and art for her as credits for each high school year. This year she has learned her third instrument. In addition to 2 formal and 2 casual recitals per year, she played live this year for a school's art open house (same place she took art classes during the school year, Mona Brooks franchaise) and will be playing her instruments at the summer farmer's market with her music school. She also just had her third piece of artwork accepted for publication in a book. Going with Lee Binz and her thoughts on counting delight directed learning, dd definitely has enough time/classes/lessons in these areas to give her a credit in subject for each year that she has been doing this. I feel it is only fair to her considering the time, energy, and dedication involved. Those credits will free us up and allow her not to take as much her last high school year. I just need to figure out exactly what I want to call these subjects for her transcript.
My dd is not fond of Math. More than likely, unless things change, her h.s. math will cover Alg. I, II, and Geometry. Trig. can still happen.... Dh helps her with math. Him being an engineer sees that dd is not of his mind...she is definitely of an artist mindset. The math impresses him as even he struggles with some of the lessons and he uses math everyday! He is learning things he never learned in his engineering college days! He feels math is being well covered, and dd is doing well beyond what she will ever need. For science, she had the IPC with the WG guide, and will do Biology in the WH, and Chemistry in the AH1 guide. Science her 'senior' year is up in the air...pending what we have to do with the 4th guide.
Here is my pickle: figuring it all out. If we can use the MTMM guide to stagger and count for more of her 9th grade year than just Economics, can I go back now and add in something else into the American History she did at that time to cover for not doing the 4th high school guide that HOD will be coming out with next? Or is it too late to add more into the MTMM history work that was done?
Or, what can I add to/change about the history in the AH1 guide to count for more history credit....basically having AH time period all in one chunk and not divided up over two guides? With freed up time from counting her art and music for credits, I would think she could do a more intense History focus for the 3rd guide.
If I can modify either of these two guides (and if I am overlooking other areas/subjects please let me know), then dd can finish school and graduate in 2017 and not do the 4th guide.
If I can't modify those 2 guides somehow, or need to cover too much beyond what she is able to do, then I guess she will be going into the 4th guide. She will then graduate 'late' IF she can't move full speed (full speed = doing 5 days school weeks, some 1/2 days on Saturdays and summers).
Just so you can see inside our situation a bit more, and how one gets off an ideal schedule: I have a middle dd (13) starting RTR this week and a younger dd (9) half way through PHFHG. The middle dd is close to a year behind due to various medical issues. After 7 years of various treatments with a specialist for our middle dd, we are finally seeing the health/physical/mental results we have been after. Since Jan. 2015 we have been doing Neuro Optimal/HIRREM treatments for our middle dd. It has meant that half of my week for 4-5 months was taken up with her appointments. The improvements happening now will help her immensely in her school work with her improved focus and energy. Part of her issue is a severe sleep disorder, and it has affected the entire family. All 5 of us have dietary allergies/intolerances, so cooking is important and demands some extra time for food shopping because of where I need to go. In March our youngest dd was diagnosed as hypothyroidism and needs meds (going with a natural thyroid med right now). Then our oldest started having some issues. Lots of dr appts = lots of time spend with the back and forth of it all. DH has been in a high stress job for 10+ years. During the last several years there have been many times where I feared the stress would leave me waking to a dead spouse. I feared for his life. By God's grace and blessings, he starts a new position with a different department in the company July 1! An answer to years and years of much prayer. I even had my own time of adrenal/thyroid issues which required 18 months of treatment with our specialist. It took me 4-5 years of worsening problems to find out what was going on with me.
So...if you got through that, you can see all the stresses of where we are and why we are there. I have to shut out the world and focus on my family and what I can control, or the stress gets overwhelming. Changing guides mid-year and not being on a normal school year schedule always caused some pressure/stress, and now we're 8-12 weeks additional off course due to all the medical appointments since January. I am trying hard to get us back on course.
There are lots of things going on outside the family, but God is in control there. It brings in varying stress, but that just reminds me/us that I/we need to rest in Him more.
Whatever suggestions anyone has in light of the high school planning, please share.
Thank you for enduring this and reading through!
I hope I can make our situation make sense...here goes:
DD (15) is currently working on finishing up the WG guide (this should be 10th grade for her, but I consider it 9 or last half of 9th/1st half of 10th - more explained below). Our school year has always changed over between Feb-April of each year. I can never seem to get us out of that. This year due to various life/family happenings it is ending later (end of July). DD will be working through summer for her high school years UNLESS she tackles the beast and cranks out more to move things along. She is very capable of doing this...charging through and getting more done in a shorter time frame.
Dd wants to graduate on time and be done with her high school in two years. If she is to graduate 'on time', her grad year is 2017 and she will be 18yo that summer. Not on time, it will move back to mid-winter/early-spring 2018 (fall 2017 might be a possibility as well).
Anyway, I had it stuck in my head that each guide is it's own single grade and that we have to complete all 4 high school guides. However, I came across some older posts on this board the other week where it was mentioning a guide covering the last half of one grade and the first half of the next grade. I guess I did realize this could be done before, and just forgot about it. Again that 'stuck' mentality that I mentioned has always put me in the mode that 'we are behind...gotta catch up.' But, thinking the other way, we could end things after the next/3rd HOD hs guide, AH1, and just not do the 4th guide.
When dd was in MTMM, we beefed up Economics for 9th grade credit. She had (and still is) taken enough classes/lessons in art and music, and put in more than enough hours, that I will be counting something in music and art for her as credits for each high school year. This year she has learned her third instrument. In addition to 2 formal and 2 casual recitals per year, she played live this year for a school's art open house (same place she took art classes during the school year, Mona Brooks franchaise) and will be playing her instruments at the summer farmer's market with her music school. She also just had her third piece of artwork accepted for publication in a book. Going with Lee Binz and her thoughts on counting delight directed learning, dd definitely has enough time/classes/lessons in these areas to give her a credit in subject for each year that she has been doing this. I feel it is only fair to her considering the time, energy, and dedication involved. Those credits will free us up and allow her not to take as much her last high school year. I just need to figure out exactly what I want to call these subjects for her transcript.
My dd is not fond of Math. More than likely, unless things change, her h.s. math will cover Alg. I, II, and Geometry. Trig. can still happen.... Dh helps her with math. Him being an engineer sees that dd is not of his mind...she is definitely of an artist mindset. The math impresses him as even he struggles with some of the lessons and he uses math everyday! He is learning things he never learned in his engineering college days! He feels math is being well covered, and dd is doing well beyond what she will ever need. For science, she had the IPC with the WG guide, and will do Biology in the WH, and Chemistry in the AH1 guide. Science her 'senior' year is up in the air...pending what we have to do with the 4th guide.
Here is my pickle: figuring it all out. If we can use the MTMM guide to stagger and count for more of her 9th grade year than just Economics, can I go back now and add in something else into the American History she did at that time to cover for not doing the 4th high school guide that HOD will be coming out with next? Or is it too late to add more into the MTMM history work that was done?
Or, what can I add to/change about the history in the AH1 guide to count for more history credit....basically having AH time period all in one chunk and not divided up over two guides? With freed up time from counting her art and music for credits, I would think she could do a more intense History focus for the 3rd guide.
If I can modify either of these two guides (and if I am overlooking other areas/subjects please let me know), then dd can finish school and graduate in 2017 and not do the 4th guide.
If I can't modify those 2 guides somehow, or need to cover too much beyond what she is able to do, then I guess she will be going into the 4th guide. She will then graduate 'late' IF she can't move full speed (full speed = doing 5 days school weeks, some 1/2 days on Saturdays and summers).
Just so you can see inside our situation a bit more, and how one gets off an ideal schedule: I have a middle dd (13) starting RTR this week and a younger dd (9) half way through PHFHG. The middle dd is close to a year behind due to various medical issues. After 7 years of various treatments with a specialist for our middle dd, we are finally seeing the health/physical/mental results we have been after. Since Jan. 2015 we have been doing Neuro Optimal/HIRREM treatments for our middle dd. It has meant that half of my week for 4-5 months was taken up with her appointments. The improvements happening now will help her immensely in her school work with her improved focus and energy. Part of her issue is a severe sleep disorder, and it has affected the entire family. All 5 of us have dietary allergies/intolerances, so cooking is important and demands some extra time for food shopping because of where I need to go. In March our youngest dd was diagnosed as hypothyroidism and needs meds (going with a natural thyroid med right now). Then our oldest started having some issues. Lots of dr appts = lots of time spend with the back and forth of it all. DH has been in a high stress job for 10+ years. During the last several years there have been many times where I feared the stress would leave me waking to a dead spouse. I feared for his life. By God's grace and blessings, he starts a new position with a different department in the company July 1! An answer to years and years of much prayer. I even had my own time of adrenal/thyroid issues which required 18 months of treatment with our specialist. It took me 4-5 years of worsening problems to find out what was going on with me.
So...if you got through that, you can see all the stresses of where we are and why we are there. I have to shut out the world and focus on my family and what I can control, or the stress gets overwhelming. Changing guides mid-year and not being on a normal school year schedule always caused some pressure/stress, and now we're 8-12 weeks additional off course due to all the medical appointments since January. I am trying hard to get us back on course.
There are lots of things going on outside the family, but God is in control there. It brings in varying stress, but that just reminds me/us that I/we need to rest in Him more.
Whatever suggestions anyone has in light of the high school planning, please share.
Thank you for enduring this and reading through!