Well, I completely understand your frustration; been there and know the confusion you feel.
First of all, I have the Beyond book and I can tell you that it has a spelling list for each unit/week, but doesn't include all the phono sounds like the "ough" you mentioned, and doesn't include any spelling rules, atleast that I could find. There are about 10 words on each list and each list follows a certain spelling pattern, such as using the short sound of "a", etc. I don't have any of the next books, so I don't know how far the spelling goes after Beyond, and whether they begin to include spelling rules or not. I think that the spelling aspect begins to drop off as sentence dictation picks up, but someone else might correct me on that.
I do use SWR, but only for phonics and spelling, which are my main goals, and not for any of the various L.A. enrichments that's included. I struggled with implementing it, as you are, but after much stumbling along with it, trying to understand it ALL completely, I finally just blindly "jumped into it", not bothering with any of the enrichments or with trying to do it "perfectly correct", and day by day the fog has cleared.
I still have not read through the SWR manual completely,
nor have I made my own teacher's log,
but none of that is absolutely necessary to successfully using SWR for phonics and spelling.
I am partial to SWR for phonics (learning to read), because it forces my son to slow down and see all the parts one by one, instead of hurriedly skipping or guessing at words he doesn't know, which he tends to do. Plus I really like the phonogram cards and the sp rules cards.
I have a detailed explanation of how I use SWR to meet my
main goal of teaching my kids to read, (spelling is a side benefit at this point), if you want me to email it to you, just let me know. I'm finally very comfortable with using SWR, but I had to give up my "perfectionistic" desire to understand it "all"
and do it "all"
perfectly. This was hard for me, but VERY freeing.
But I know that many people have learned to read and spell with other programs, so if the fog just isn't clearing, and you don't want to suffer through another whole school year "foggy headed", you should feel free to use something else. In fact, you could use SWR's phono cards and sp cards with many other programs, because they are just so basic and are really great to have for review.
If I didn't use SWR, I'd use my next favorite, Phonics Pathways. It starts off with giant size font and less clutter than some, and is just one simple book for teacher/student combined. It's very easy. It just doesn't cover
all the phonograms and
all their sounds, nor does it cover
all the spelling rules like SWR does. However, you
could teach those with the SWR cards, on the side.
I looked at The Reading Lesson at the bookfair, because a friend uses it, and it looks good too. But I just glanced through it, so I can't say much about it really. It didn't look as visually crowded as Reading Made Easy, imo. You could use the SWR cards with both of these too, I'm sure, if you want more of the benefits of SWR.
But I don't mind trying to help you understand how to "jump" into SWR, if you want to email me off-list at:
tawbur@sbcglobal.net
hth,
Teresa