Is this terrible?
Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:02 pm
We have used R&S English from the very beginning. My oldest was using it even before we found HOD. With my girls, we have always used the student textbook as a non-consumable text (as it is meant to be). My son (who is not quite 10, and dyslexic) did very well with R&S 2. We did it all orally, but he understood and retained the information. We are not quite half way through Level 3. He does the oral part just fine. However, when I assigned the written work (I was only assigning about 25% of it to be done independently), he just really struggled. He does all of his copywork great and with no complaints, all of his notebooking pages (even the ones with really long verses or passages to write) great with no complaints, math-great/no complaints....everything else with no complaint. But when it came to writing the English, he was really struggling. At first I thought it was a character issue (from past experience, dh has to have a "come to Jesus" meeting with this particular boy in regard to attitude/laziness in schoolwork about once a year --but after that he's all good for about another year ). But after speaking with ds and dh, I decided it's not as much a lazy thing as it is just plain hard. I think with copywork, he can easily transpose the material from one place to another. But with doing the English, he not only has to copy information from one place to the other, but also add to it (whether fill in the blank, or whatever). I think it may be just a bit much for him to process all at once.
So........for the last week, I have allowed him to write in the book . I feel like such a bad steward. I mean this is a hard back book for goodness sake . But he has thrived with doing it this way, so I think I am going to continue, at least for a season. This guy has come a very long way in the last 2 years with his reading and schoolwork in general. It is really amazing how much he has accomplished from where we started. He is now reading on grade level (a major accomplishment), just has a much better outlook where school is concerned. He can do a lot of things very well, but academics has been a struggle for him (where reading/writing was concerned), and we have had to work hard to keep him progressing while at the same time building his confidence. My dh had a hard time in school also, even had a 4th grade teacher tell him he would never amount to anything. This created a school career for dh that was less than desirable (but that's a whole other story!). Suffice it to say, we have been determined to help Noah in whatever way we can with the utmost care given to building his confidence. And today, he is a completely different child from the kid he was just a year ago where school is concerned. (Thankfully, his school troubles had not carried over into other areas of his life before we got to the root of the problem). Long story now made short: I think buying a new English book for my younger kids is well worth the price .
Well, this got way longer than I intended. It started out I was going to ask a simple question about whether or not I was being terrible for writing in our hard bound books for goodness sakes. As it turns out, after typing it out, I don't really have that question any more. I know what we are doing is OK . I guess I could delete my whole post now (But I will just leave it here in case someone else is in a similar situation and needs approval to do something the "wrong" way
Angie
So........for the last week, I have allowed him to write in the book . I feel like such a bad steward. I mean this is a hard back book for goodness sake . But he has thrived with doing it this way, so I think I am going to continue, at least for a season. This guy has come a very long way in the last 2 years with his reading and schoolwork in general. It is really amazing how much he has accomplished from where we started. He is now reading on grade level (a major accomplishment), just has a much better outlook where school is concerned. He can do a lot of things very well, but academics has been a struggle for him (where reading/writing was concerned), and we have had to work hard to keep him progressing while at the same time building his confidence. My dh had a hard time in school also, even had a 4th grade teacher tell him he would never amount to anything. This created a school career for dh that was less than desirable (but that's a whole other story!). Suffice it to say, we have been determined to help Noah in whatever way we can with the utmost care given to building his confidence. And today, he is a completely different child from the kid he was just a year ago where school is concerned. (Thankfully, his school troubles had not carried over into other areas of his life before we got to the root of the problem). Long story now made short: I think buying a new English book for my younger kids is well worth the price .
Well, this got way longer than I intended. It started out I was going to ask a simple question about whether or not I was being terrible for writing in our hard bound books for goodness sakes. As it turns out, after typing it out, I don't really have that question any more. I know what we are doing is OK . I guess I could delete my whole post now (But I will just leave it here in case someone else is in a similar situation and needs approval to do something the "wrong" way
Angie