Pass the styrofoam PLEASE!!!
LOL!

You are too much!!
You know I have LLATL Blue and R&S TE, and have looked at samples of RL. I was showing dd (20 yo) how each one of them were doing the same exact thing, but in a different angle.
~LLATL would have you lay cards on the table: one vowel and 3 or 4 consonants. The child is to move the cards around and make diff words.
~R&S had something like a rainbow shaped set of consonants with a line drawn from each letter to the one vowel so that you got ba, be, bi, bo, bu.
~RL was doing something to the effect of C_A_T.
~ABeka has blend ladders and so does MFW-K. Some blend like at, it, et, etc, where others go ba, be, bi.
But they are all going to the same place just taking different roads. I agree with you fully.
It was the sight word teaching that was stumping me cuz of this one person (and a few who follow her like she is the end of all knowledge,

) that had me wondering if I was missing something.
After reading the responses here and at the WTM I feel so much better!!! I don't fear that I will ruin my dd by making a bad choice.
Right now she is loving Starfall and wants to do it all the time!! She loves the Zigzag song and will watch it over and over. When she losses it she will ask, "Where's zigzag? Ohoh, gone gone."

When I put on a video and that pesky warning comes on she will sit there like she is reading and tell me, "Mama, I'm reading!"

It is too cute!