2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

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psreit
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2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by psreit » Mon Jan 02, 2012 10:56 pm

We have been caring for a baby girl through our local prison ministry since Oct. 2010. She has only known us as her caregivers since birth. In the next few months we will be working to transition her back to her birth mother. This will be a difficult time for our 8yo dd, as she has grown to love her like a sister. My dh and I love her dearly and will really miss her, even though I believe the Lord is preparing us for the respite. We both turn 50 this year, so it has been tough some days with a *very* busy and "very" headstrong little girl. Our greatest concern is that her mother is not showing evidence of having the Lord in her life as she professed earlier in 2011. So, it doesn't look like she will be picking up where we left off in training her according to the principles in God's Word. and seeking support from the Christian community. These next few months will be stressful, not only from having to put this little girl through the visits and the changes, but also because we are almost 4 hours away from the mother because of transfers. So, visits have been few and if the weather gets bad, we will not be able to have consistent weekly visits. The baby is strongly attached to us, so it is important to make the transition soon. Please keep us all in prayer during this process. I know the Lord has good things in store for our family when this is complete, but we need His grace to deal with all that needs to be done to bring us to that point.
I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth. III John 4
Pam
dh 33 yrs
ds29 church planter in MA
dd27 SAH mom
dd26
dd 12
3 dgs(5,2, & born 6/15) & 2 dgd(3 & born 2/15)

Heidi in AK
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Re: 2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by Heidi in AK » Mon Jan 02, 2012 11:33 pm

Praying with you, Pam. And hugs to you! Sounds like a very difficult situation.
Heidi
loving teaching my rewards!!!
Girlie (dd7) - Beyond, 4 days/week
Boy-o (ds4), LHTH, along for the ride!!! (all boy, whatever he can get his hands on, FULL OF ENERGY!)
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MommaK5
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Re: 2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by MommaK5 » Tue Jan 03, 2012 11:07 pm

Oh Pam!
I am praying for you and your family as you go through this transition.
Every foster child we have reunited back into their bio-families was difficult.
I can't imagine having one that knows only you and your family. It's such a mixed blessing.
I know you know, but God is in control and holds this life and yours in His perfect will.

Hugs and we are praying!

Blessings!
Kathy
In Christ,
Kathy
Blessed wife of Bob for 28yrs.
Grown children ds27, dd25, ds23
dd9 BHFHG
dd7 BLHFHG
Beautiful gd 1.5!

8arrows
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Re: 2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by 8arrows » Tue Jan 03, 2012 11:47 pm

I just prayed for your family and this sweet little one.
Melissa, wife to Jim for 28 years
3 graduated, 2 using US 2, 8th grade dd using Missions to Marvels
Isaiah 40:11 ...He gently leads those that have young.

my3sons
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Re: 2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by my3sons » Wed Jan 04, 2012 4:40 pm

I just prayed for you and your little babe as well! May God be with you and guide all of this in the way He sees best, as that is sure to be the best plan. May He be with you every step of the way!
In Christ,
Julie
Enjoyed LHTH to USII
Currently using USI
Wife to Rich for 28 years
Mother to 3 sons, ages 23, 20, and 16
Sister to Carrie

psreit
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Re: 2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by psreit » Wed Jan 04, 2012 8:13 pm

Thanks for all the prayers. I do know the Lord is in control and I believe He is preparing our family for the separation. It does put one on an emotional roller coaster. I'm trying to focus on positive things and look forward to what God has in store for us. One being another grandchild. :D I am also looking forward to spending more quality time with Angie in her schooling and she is still dealing with some emotional issues. I just need to take a day at a time. I try to look too far ahead and then I get stressed and frustrated. We will enjoy this precious little girl as long as God wants her with us.
I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth. III John 4
Pam
dh 33 yrs
ds29 church planter in MA
dd27 SAH mom
dd26
dd 12
3 dgs(5,2, & born 6/15) & 2 dgd(3 & born 2/15)

Heather4Him
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Re: 2012 To Bring Transition - Please pray!

Post by Heather4Him » Wed Jan 04, 2012 9:04 pm

Pam, just wanted to let you know that you and your family (and this little girl and her mom) are in my prayers. ((((hugs))))
Love in Christ,
Heather (WI)
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16yog girl
DITHOR/CTC/RTR/Rev2Rev/MTMM

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