A Change of Heart (for the better)

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holdinon
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A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by holdinon » Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:50 pm

I haven't been on the board in a while, but just wanted to share.....

My DD doing RtR was literally in tears the first two units having to do Shakespeare. She loved every other part of RTR from the beginning. But Shakespeare was absolute torture as far as she was concerned. I really don't know why. She was perfectly capable, something just didn't click. She simply did not want to do it. Nevermind that it's only one day a week--- It was awful (according to her).
So, we battled over it for the first couple of times. She had seen it was "optional" and somehow thought SHE was the one who got to choose. Being the mean mom I am :roll: , told her of the err of her thinking. She finally decided I wasn't budging. So, she began to suck it up and resign herself to just get it done.

Fast forward to today (unit 8, I think)......

She opened her guide and exclaimed, "YES!!! Day Four!!" I just figured she must have just then realized it was Friday. (We don't do school on Tuesdays). But then she went on to say that she liked day four so much because that was Shakespeare day. :shock: I came really close to make a big deal of her saying this. But (for once) I was able to hold my tongue and simply, nonchalantly say, "oh, are you liking that better now?"

She then proceeds to tell me all about the plays and how much she's learned and how great it is and how she's so glad that "we" decided to stick with it. (Again, I kept my mouth shut about the "WE" part :wink: ) and just told her how glad I was that she was enjoying it.

So, I don't know how much of this change of heart is hormonal craziness (she is 13), and how much is truly learning how to make the best of something, or just learning of new interests. But either way, it was nice to hear :D

Angie
2013-2014 year:
Geography, CtC, Preparing, Bigger, Beyond, and Little Hearts (and surviving!)

(Completed LHTH, LHFHG, BLHFHG, BHFHG, Preparing, CtC, RtR, and RevtRev)

KristinBeth

Re: A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by KristinBeth » Fri Oct 14, 2011 5:41 pm

Wow, good for her! :D And good for you for holding your tongue (something I have yet to learn...) :wink:

kamariden
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Re: A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by kamariden » Fri Oct 14, 2011 6:13 pm

Thanks so much for sharing this. I'm filing this story away in my mind for future encouragement. :D I can't imagine I won't face a similar situation at some point.
Happily Married to Luke since 2001
Ethan - doing LHFHG part time, will begin BLHFHG fulltime Jan. 2012
Quintin - doing part time LHTH.
Liam - studying the art of annoying his brothers and taking out anything that has been put away. (toddler)

pjdobro
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Re: A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by pjdobro » Fri Oct 14, 2011 8:00 pm

:D What a great encouragement this is! I'm so happy for you for sticking to your guns and holding your tongue (congratulations!!!) and your daughter for persevering and finding a new interest. Thanks for sharing! :D
Patty in NC

b/g twins '02 Rev2Rev 2014/15
previously enjoyed LHFHG, BLHFHG, Bigger, Preparing, CTC, RTR
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Kathleen
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Re: A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by Kathleen » Fri Oct 14, 2011 9:58 pm

It's always nice to see those changes isn't it? :D I personally want to read what Grant is reading in Shakespeare...but haven't done so yet. :oops: He says he's enjoying it, too. But at the beginning his comment was something like, "Shakespeare has a way with words, but he sure seems to write about LOVE a lot. Do you think he has anything that isn't about people falling in LOVE?" :lol:

:D Kathleen
Homeschooling mom to 6:
Grant - 19 Kansas State University
Allison - 15 World Geography
Garret - 13 Res2Ref
Asa - 8 Bigger
Quinn - 7 Bigger

Halle - 4 LHTH

deltagal
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Re: A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by deltagal » Sat Oct 15, 2011 1:34 pm

My children (at first) seemed a little overwhelmed by the Shakespeare, but it didn't last long. They now (literally) beg for it. They find it fascinating! :D
With Joy!
Florence

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Began HOD 1/2009
Currently using: Bigger, RTR, Rev to Rev and MTMM

holdinon
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Re: A Change of Heart (for the better)

Post by holdinon » Mon Oct 17, 2011 6:22 pm

Kathleen, I can already hear Noah saying the same thing when he gets there! Those boys just don't care much for that LOVE stuff, do they!?!? :roll: So funny
2013-2014 year:
Geography, CtC, Preparing, Bigger, Beyond, and Little Hearts (and surviving!)

(Completed LHTH, LHFHG, BLHFHG, BHFHG, Preparing, CtC, RtR, and RevtRev)

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