I am so sorry to hear about your family going through some difficult times, and I know that this can impact a school year and how smoothly it goes. I pray you are all doing better and that you feel God's presence in healing as you move forward. You ask a good question about your dd here, and the ladies have brought up some good things to ponder.

It sounds like your dd is doing well with the rest of BHFHG. A few things caught my attention as we consider dd's reaction to the reading she is doing in BHFHG...
kmom wrote:...she can read the history text also with no problem...
In BHFHG, the history text is scheduled for the parent to read aloud. The extensions are meant to be read by students who are ages 10-11 yo, who are able to do the reading independently. By doing both readings, she is doing far more reading than was intended for her to do. So, I just want to encourage you that her reaction to reading both the Reading about History books and the extension books is to be expected especially because of her age...
kmom wrote:...So my dd is almost 10
BHFHG has a target age range of 7-9 yo, and it looks like at the start of BHFHG and also now, your dd is 9 yo, and as such she falls in the age range that would not use extensions and would not read the Reading about History books. However, I can see you changed this because of her placement...
kmom wrote:... and we went with Bigger this year as I already the entire set otherwise she placed skill wise in Preparing...!
I can see why you would chose to do this because of budget considerations. I am sure you decided to add the extensions trying to up the level of history for dd as she really placed in PHFHG. However, the reading that she would have done in PHFHG would have been much easier than the reading she is doing in BHFHG. In PHFHG, the parent is still reading aloud the Reading about History box, and the student is reading the SELF-STUDY DELUXE HISTORY PACKAGE: FOR THE NEWLY INDEPENDENT READER, which includes the following books...
http://www.heartofdakota.com/preparing- ... ckages.php
The PHFHG reading assignments are often short, only a few pages or so, and the book levels are much easier than both BHFHG's Reading about History books and BHFHG's extension books. In PHFHG, the parent retains the Reading about History readings and the Basic Package readings too. So, this is reaction is not surprising...
kmom wrote:Once we got to "Almost Home" she has gotten very frustrated....
I cannot tell if this is due to the reading level being to high or if she just is not wanting to apply herself. This year has been a bit of a struggle with a bad attitude from her...seems to be getting better....
Things are getting better probably because she is approaching the age where she would actually be within the extension package age range.
kmom wrote:So I guess my question is how do I know when it's her just not wanting to work a little harder or when it's truly over her level.
So, to answer this question, the best scenario would be to stop and just put her in PHFHG where she places best anyway. This is going to be the most well-matched placement for dd, not only in reading skills in regard to history, but also in the other subject areas (i.e. reading her science independently in PHFHG, which is assigned using books much more fitting to her reading level too). The assignments will challenge her more than the assignments in BHFHG, and that will be a better fit too. Many, many families are beginning new guides in January, with a plan to complete the guides by Dec. or by the following May (if they begin the guide half-speed). I'm not sure how long ago you ordered your BHFHG's extensions ,but if they are in good condition and it's been less than 60 days, you can return them to HOD with only a 15% restocking fee (you can receive a full refund if it's been 30 days or less). If you cannot return them, you can certainly hold onto them for when your dd is older and more able to enjoy reading them. We often order the extensions for Christmas or birthday gifts, as they are excellent books for free reading when they are older too.
If ordering PHFHG is not an option, then the next best placement option would be to have dd stop the extensions and stop the Reading about History readings and just do what a 9 yo would typically do when placed in BHFHG. DITHOR will provide the independent reading she needs to be doing. I hope something here can help! This is a wonderful time of year to make a fresh start! Either one of these changes will help the rest of your year be more full of joy and less stress for you and your dd! That is what we want in homeschooling - happy memories! Good days - and I know that with one of these 2 options, that will be your Happy New Year!!!
In Christ,
Julie