Bigger Hearts for HIs Glory:
The Godly character study in the Bible Study part of the plans in BHFHG is always so timely. This week we have been studying being 'industrious.' This is a toughie for Emmett. He has only a few chores to complete each day, and he has the habit of beginning a chore, stopping it in the middle to play with his beanie balz, and then forgetting to complete it.
Talking about being 'industrious' has been such a help! Talking about the ant being industrious as opposed to being a sluggard in Proverbs and working on memorizing those verses this week has been timely. I find that having the Bible as a support system is incredibly important. We discussed how my dh and I view our dc as being a HUGE and NECESSARY part of our team we call FAMILY, and that if each family member doesn't do their part to help out, the whole thing falls apart. I told Emmett that we need him to do his chores, to pick up after himself, and to do the things that are asked of him because he is an important contributing member of the family. Our expecting much of him is a compliment to him because we think highly of him. I then told him about a tv show I saw where the parents had their young ds just sit on a chair in the middle of the room while the rest of the family worked on chores, house upkeep, etc., because they thought he was no help and would just get in the way. (Isn't that sad BTW?!?
) I asked Emmett if he would rather we viewed him that way and asked nothing of him because nothing could be expected of him. That really hit home with Emmett! He is beginning to realize that he is an important, needed person in this home, and that his contributions though they seem unimportant to him really are something we depend on and appreciate.
As a result of this Bible Study, Emmett began making all of our beds as a surprise in the morning. He did it all week, and it was such a nice surprise!
He struggled with his regular chores though, which are not as flashy as they are routine. Taking out the garbages from all
the bathrooms and kitchen and consolidating them in one bag is not as fun as it is routine and expected. So, I enlisted my ds Riley's help, as this used to be his chore.
So, now Riley sets the timer for 10 minutes, Emmett does his garbages and tries to 'beat the timer,' and then Riley checks his work. If he didn't do them all right, Emmett has a 5 minute time out in the corner. Then, he has another 5 minutes to finish. If this doesn't work, it's back to time out for 5 minutes, and I am to be told. They are getting into the routine of this, and it is helping Emmett to be more focused on his morning chores in an 'industrious' way. Emmett is learning to take pride in good hard work, though the 'call' of his Beanie Balz to be played with is ever-present.
It helps that he earns $1 each week as an allowance, and he often saves this to put toward a new Beanie Balz purchase.
I snapped a picture of Emmett's Bible verse he copied, but he apparently held up the wrong one.
Ahh, well love and faithfulness are pretty important too.
In history, Emmett loves to add to his timeline and see it grow. This week we have read about Thomas Jefferson, and he has made many connections to the Storytime we read before entitled "George Rogers Clark." Riley is learning about some of the same people and events right now in RTR, and the boys are having some great discussions together about it. I love that they each are the 'stars' of their own age appropriate guides, and yet so much family sharing about learning takes place.
In Christ,
Julie